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Squirrel

 Do you ever have Squirrel brain?

 If you aren't sure what i'm referring to, lets take a journey!! A journey through what its like to be my brain on any given day.

I wake up, so tired, already thinking about bedtime that night.  Get kids off to school and begin to start a load of laundry, but I notice once I'm in the laundry room that there are tools that need to be put away in the garage.  So I take the tools out to the garage, where I see the shop vac and remember that the kids spilled goldfish in my car. So I start vacuuming my car.  Where I stumble upon a shoe that has no match, so I go bak inside to pair this lonely shoe with its mate...and realize that once upstairs that kids didn't make their beds.  So mid bed making I find a hair bow that needs to go in the bow box downstairs.  As I'm descending the stairs I recognize a pull in my hamstring and think "yay, I'm getting a little exercise", which reminds me I haven't eaten.  I walk into the kitchen to make a quick bite to eat, two bites in I realize that the paper towel holder is empty so I set off to get to remedy that.  Once in the cabinet, I also find a candle I've been wanting to burn, so I head to look for a lighter.  Here lies the problem, I walk back into the laundry room to get a lighter from the drawer to find laundry that I never started,  which leads to screwdrivers I didn't put in their correct place and a car thats half vacuumed. A shoe that still hasn't found a mate, a bed thats half made and bow thats now sitting on the kitchen counter, next to my uneaten lunch, that resides next to an empty paper towel holder.  And a candle waiting to be lit.  Squirrel!!!

Is this every woman's brain, is it mom brain..or should I seek professional help, seriously! LOL  My general MO is to be a clean freak, but in the last 6 months I can look at everything I need to do/that I want to get done and just feel so overwhelmed that I throw in the towel.  

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