I captioned the phrase "Happily Ever After" under a photo I posted on social media recently, that phrase has continued to caused me unsettled feelings. For the life of me I couldn't figure out what I was trying to work out in my mind and in my heart. There is so much more that should have gone in that caption other that "Happily Ever After". The reality is that there is no "Happily Ever After". It's more like, “ Let's give it our best today, Lets choose each other, or today is tough but lets choose joy, love, hope.” Marriage is a choice!! You choose each other every single day, you're intentional with your words and actions, you give yourself to another person. My husband and I met when we were 18 years old and shortly after we were inseparable... There's no fairy tale or Happily Ever After to our story. The reality is that we wake up every morning and choose to be happy in our relationship, we choose to share ourselves, we c...