No Drama Mama

As much as I want to blog about all the joys of being a Mom, Wife, Friend, Sister...etc.   I think its important to just get real with you . With so many people trying to fit the perfect "social media standard" looking family, lifestyle or #relationshipgoals, isn't it refreshing to be reminded that life can be messy, and that its ok? Of course we all want kids that don't talk back, a clean house, a boss wardrobe, friendships that make us not feel so alone and that resemble "those girls who seem inseparable and are always laughing."  But, that may not be our reality! My reality is this.... I'm a mom of 3 : 3 beautiful children at all different stages, who are 3 completely different little     people. Who, at any moment can be having 3 completely different meltdowns. They, love hard, play hard, and crash hard! God love 'em!! I'm a wife : Thinking about this man makes an instant smile come to my face, Oh he is the love of my life!! He's exc...

As women, whether we're mothers, daughters, sisters or friends, we have the biggest opportunity to speak into so many peoples lives.  We have the ability to show the fiercest love for others!! We grow life, we speak life and we exude life.  Women are natural leaders, we have love and logic on our side. We are capable of so much, if we as a culture would root for one another and focus on our best form of life,  can you imagine the world we'd be living in? If we truly sharpened one another as we're called to do rather than judging, tearing down and accusing others..think of the peace! 

I found ME!!! For so long I thought I needed to prove myself to those around me..why do we do this?!? We feel the need to prove where we've been in life or correct misconceptions (lies that people believe about us).  I've known who I am all along and what I've come to realize is that I love me!! I believe in me!! No more getting knocked down by what others want to say or think about me..nope no more!! I've lived my whole life following the rules and sticking close to my spiritual, moral and core beliefs. The unfortunate truth though is that no matter how solid of a person you are, there will always be those who tell you you're someone else and there's nothing you can do about people like this. I've never felt more comfortable in my own skin as I do now and that's because "I Found Me", I stopped trying to prove myself.  If you love me, you love me and if you don't....BYE!! I say this with a pure heart not a sassy, indigent attitude!!...