After much thought and prayer today, I've come to this question...when did being a good parent become such a bad thing?!? I say good, but what I mean is leading by our actions, validating our children's feelings, removing them from bad/harmful situations, trying to filter as much vulgar language as possible from the influences outside our home, showing them constant/unwavering love, teaching them manners (to be gentlemen) and most importantly centering our home around Christ. The reality is that this season of being able to give our children a strong foundation, a solid moral compass and the understanding of how deeply they are loved, is such a short time frame. I can't be my children's filter forever, as of now my children are 4 & 1, so my husband and I are every bit in the drivers seat to determine what is acceptable for our children and for our family. When they are 10 & 7 I'm sure we'll be playing with a whole new set of rules. We have t...