Skip to main content

To clarify...❤️

I just want to say that these blogs stand as a way for me to not only work on myself but to be vulnerable.  In no way are they intended to ever call someone out or to send a message, that's not who I am.  I'm someone who doesn't always get it right, who fails, who's hard on themself, who's insecure in some areas...I'm flawed! But, I'm constantly trying to learn, grow and reflect on my day to day interactions. I'm someone who is ok being raw and open even when it's not so pretty!!!

I woke feeling like I needed to clarify this in case my words, feelings or interpretations cause anyone pain...that will never be my heart!

In fact, that actually brings me to another thought...

It's never about you!!!!

The way someone treats you or talks to you(or about you) is never truly about you.  I wish that someone would have spoken these words to me forever ago.  I don't know that my 20 something self would have listened to that kind of wisdom but goodness....those are powerful words!  You know when you hear the age old question of "If you could go back and tell your younger self one word of wisdom, what would it be?"...well that would be it for me.  A lot of times, the way someone treats you or talks to you is really....are you ready for it?!?  ....it's about the way they see themself, I said it, its about THEM!!!! Let's be honest, we all have insecurities, some more severe than others..but we have them.  And when someone is hurting and really feeling some kind of way about themselves, they lash out! They may speak ugly to you or about you, they may bring negative energy around you that's uncomfortable.  It doesn't feel good...but stand in your light and in your truth! It's not about you!!

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Moms Supporting Moms

I want to challenge moms to get onboard!! Too often I hear women critiquing fellow moms choices in how they want to raise their children.  The lack of grace and compassion for each other and our journey is heart breaking. For example: I follow Kourtney Kardashian on Instagram(don't laugh), I love seeing her style and her day to day with her children. I think she's a great mom! Yesterdays Instagram was of two of her babies sleeping, tangled together all cozy and sweet. As I scrolled down I began reading a few comment left by individuals, whether moms, single women(without kids), men, teenagers, maybe even grandparents. While majority of the comments were about how precious these children were, I couldn't help but notice the mass of ugly,  mean spirited and rude words left under such an innocent picture.  Some were shaming her for allowing her children to sleep in her bed, others found it sickening that the youngest(who is 1) had a pacifier in her mouth.  And many h...
Post a Comment
Read more

When Being a Good Parent is Viewed as a Bad Thing

After much thought and prayer today, I've come to this question...when did being a good parent become such a bad thing?!?  I say good, but what I mean is leading by our actions, validating our children's feelings, removing them from bad/harmful situations, trying to filter as much vulgar language as possible from the influences outside our home, showing them constant/unwavering love, teaching them manners (to be gentlemen) and most importantly centering our home around Christ.  The reality is that this season of being able to give our children a strong foundation, a solid moral compass and the understanding of how deeply they are loved, is such a short time frame.  I can't be my children's filter forever,  as of now my children are 4 & 1, so my husband and I are every bit in the drivers seat to determine what is acceptable for our children and for our family. When they are 10 & 7 I'm sure we'll be playing with a whole new set of rules.   We have t...
Post a Comment
Read more

Oh Sister, My Sister

I can't begin to express what I think it means to be a sister, to have a sister or sisters. In my mind its supposed to be this fierce, I've got your back, I know your story and "I love you despite all of that" kind of affection. Its magical, its freeing, its no judgement, its a force to be reckoned with. To me, sisterhood is an incredible bond between women who unconditionally care for one another, who want to see the best in each other and who want the world for one another.  It's celebrating each others differences and strengths as well as weakness. Sisterhood is learning from the other with an open heart, it's a "when her heart aches mine aches with her" kind of bond. Sisterhood is being each others "Naomi", where she goes I will go....It's trust!     There are so many beautiful quotes about sisterhood, they make the relationship sound so enchanting, something to strive for.  If you didn't have a sister it makes you wish...
Post a Comment
Read more